Self-guided Afterlife Connections

Validations from Participant Journals

Participants experienced validations in which they learned something during the Guided Afterlife Connection that they did not know about.  The information was later proven to be true. Excerpts from journals with validations follow.

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Then, I saw a young girl/teenager. She had familiar features. The name Brenda came to me and I realized it's a friend of mine's daughter. She died in a roll over crash where she was pinned and asphyxiated. The kids with her were allegedly responsible for her being abandoned at the wreck. The feelings I got from her had nothing to do with that wreck or the people around her then. She hovered with me, morphing a bit so I saw her in different stages, ages. I saw her exploring. I heard her say, I love mom. I miss mom. I saw some food item, rolled. It looked like a lobster roll but with jalapeños. I was focused on it too much and it disappeared, I looked to the side and saw her as a little girl, rolling out dough, working on a red checked table cloth, working so hard. She was darling! Then, I realized, Oh, she misses doing this stuff with her mom. At least that's what I got from it.

IN A LATER E-MAIL TO THE CENTER, THE PARTICIPANT WROTE THIS:

Well, how Dee doo? I wrote Lauren [mother of the little girl in the afterlife connection] and told her the first part of it and how confused I was with the roll ups that had jalapeños in them. I kept thinking, what on earth. So, I wrote Lauren unsure of how much to tell her. I can never remember who is a believer and who isn't. Guess what? She writes back and says it makes sense to her. Yes, they made jalapeños roll ups. WHAT.... I've NEVER heard of such a thing. Look, if I ever thought I was making this stuff up, well, I completely believe now. Where the hell did jalapeño roll ups come from?

I wanted to follow up on these messages. I checked in with the two people at church to see if these messages meant anything to them. Our pastor said I was spot on when I gave her this message. She had been struggling with being pulled in too many directions and not knowing how to handle it. She said that it was a confirmation to her that she needed to cut some stress and certain people out of her life( in a good way of course) that had been taking way too much of her time. The other person's husband has come through to me several times before with some strange messages or at least what I thought were strange messages. She told me that whenever I give her a message from her deceased husband that it always come to pass and she knows exactly what it means. I asked her if page 112 in the book she was reading meant anything and she said there was a passage that was guidance from her husband. She was reading three books at the time and said indeed that one of the books had a mostly red cover and that was where she looked. She said that yes, his name is Jerry. I was thrilled that he continues to come to me to give me messages to share with her. These were both amazing validations for me! I also have a favor to ask of you. Would you be available on Sunday, March 16th to speak at the Spiritualist Church again. Everyone loves it when you come to speak and share with us. One lady asked if we could have you two Sundays in a row because she always wants to hear more than we have time for. I told her I didn't think it was very nice to expect you to come two Sunday's in a row! lol You are very loved by our church and I am thankful to know that I have been guided to you as a student. You are an amazing educator and a gift. Thank you for all you do for me and so many others. Please let me know if the speaking date will work with your schedule. April and May are open at this point if March does not work. Blessings!

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I find myself being able to relax and get into my special place where information and guides come to me.

This time the husband of a church friend came through and told me to contact his wife and tell her to go to page 112 of the book she was reading and she would find a passage there that would let her know that it was him. He said she tends to read more than one book at a time so to make sure she knew that it was the one with red on the cover. I didn’t know his first name. He also told me his first name was Harold and she would be able to confirm that.

Also another friend who is a pastor had one of his spirit guides appear to me. Her name was Ariel and she told me that the pastor needed to start weeding out his life. This is what she showed me and I asked for clarification. She said that there is a lot of unnecessary stress and struggle in his life and all he needed to do is learn to walk away from what no longer served him in his life whether it be a person, habit, or just taking on too many things at once.

IN A LATER E-MAIL TO CRAIG

I wanted to follow up on these messages. I checked in with the two people at church to see if these messages meant anything to them. Our pastor said I was spot on when I gave him this message. He had been struggling with being pulled in too many directions and not knowing how to handle it. He said that it was a confirmation to him that he needed to cut some stress and certain people out of his life ( in a good way of course) that had been taking way too much of her time.

The other person's husband has come through to me several times before with some strange messages or at least what I thought were strange messages. She told me that whenever I give her a message from her deceased husband that it always comes to pass and she knows exactly what it means. I asked her if page 112 in the book she was reading meant anything and she said there was a passage that was guidance from her husband. She was reading three books at the time and said indeed that one of the books had a mostly red cover and that was where she looked. She said that yes, his name is Harold. I was thrilled that he continues to come to me to give me messages to share with her. These were both amazing validations for me!

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I did a session the other night, clearly saw a friend's son, his music and some other things. I heard him playing a song.  Later that day, I asked my friend about something her son had shown me and she confirmed that was something of significance. That made me smile.  She told me about his YouTube he recorded before his passing. When I watched the online songs her son left on YouTube, one of his songs was the same song I heard in my afterlife connection!

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Then I walked through the glowing door and Brandon greeted me. He seemed eager to share what I had missed in his life. He led me to his small boat, took my hand and helped me climbed aboard. We went out on the lake, and he gave me a big smile. He stopped the boat in the middle of the lake. It was very quiet and peaceful. He then took out a fishing rod, put a worm on it and began fishing. The word "bluegill" came to mind, and I saw an image of a bluish-grey fish. He then showed me how to fish and had me try it. I told him I had done well fishing at 6th grade camp. After that, I saw Brandon cooking fish on a barbecue grill.

IN AN E-MAIL TO THE CENTER A DAY LATER, THE PARTICIPANT WROTE THIS:

After Session 6, I was thinking about the bluegill fish and Brandon grilling it. I know practically nothing about fishing, so I was wondering if bluegills even live in the lake near where he lived. I had also never heard of anyone eating bluegills and didn't know if they could be grilled. I had actually always thought the most common fish to catch and eat was trout, so I was surprised bluegill even came to mind. I decided to do some checking to see if any of the information could be verified. It turns out that the lake by Brandon's house does indeed have bluegill fish! I also read they are a very tasty fish, and they are usually pan-fried, but can also be grilled. This is all information I did not know before the session. This definitely provides proof that this information is not coming from me. How could I possibly create something I had no prior knowledge of?

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I saw an image of my Aunt Mary, who passed away about 7 years ago, followed by gold bow earrings and a tri-colored gold rope bracelet with three strands twisted together. I then saw a slot machine with triple 7s. I had a sense that she wanted me to share the jewelry and slot machine images with my mom. Next I saw Aunt Mary at my cousin's wedding (the last wedding she went to before she passed away). She was wearing the black dress covered with a glitter pattern that I let her borrow because she lost a lot of weight and didn't have anything that fit. She was smiling, and I got the feeling she was trying to communicate to me that she loved wearing my dress and appreciated me loaning it to her.

IN AN E-MAIL TO THE CENTER A DAY LATER, THE PARTICIPANT WROTE THIS:

I told my mom about the images related to Aunt Mary. She confirmed that Aunt Mary did have a pair of bow earrings that she wore around Christmastime. [This session was five days before Christmas.] She wasn't sure about the bracelet, but thought it sounded familiar. The slot machine I already knew about because my mom and her sisters liked to go to the casino together. My mom also remembered that Aunt Mary really loved wearing my dress to the wedding and said she felt like a celebrity in it.

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In Stage 5, which I did yesterday evening, you advised us to ask questions to which we did not know the answers and then to check them afterwards.

I did this. The first question that I asked was the whereabouts of something that I had moved to another place, several months ago. Because I thought that I may subconsciously know where it is, I also asked another question to which I had no idea of the answer. I asked which was the card on top of the pack in the closed box of my Angel cards.

After submitting my journal to you, I first went to look for the moved object, and I found it where Johnnie had said that it would be.

I then went to the box of 44 Angel cards, and found face down on the top of the pack, the card that he had told me. I could not have seen it when I put the pack away several days ago because I only looked at the card on the bottom of the pack which was face up.

Amazing proof !!!

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Next, there was an image of a lake with a small boat. I wanted more validation that Brandon was actually communicating with me, so I asked him for a boat name. The name that came to mind was “Pearson.” I had never heard of that before and actually had doubts it was real.

After the procedure, when I looked up “Pearson,” I discovered -- much to my surprise -- that it is indeed a boat brand. They make many different types of boats, including yachts, sailboats and large fishing boats. I was amazed by this validation. There is absolutely no way this came from me. I had no prior knowledge of this name and its connection to boats.

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(Written in December 2012) I saw the inside of a church with stained glass windows. I thought maybe it was the church funeral service. I saw lots of white flowers and then spotted white bows on the ends of the wooden pews. I realized it wasn't a funeral service, but a wedding. I saw a couple getting married, holding a little baby boy. Larry was standing with them, smiling and glowing white again. When he passed away, he didn't have any children and wasn't married, so I figured this must be his niece or nephew's wedding.

IN AN E-MAIL TO THE CENTER TWO MONTHS LATER, THE PARTICIPANT WROTE THIS:

(Written in March 2013) I was able to confirm that the wedding Larry showed me in our first afterlife connection (Stage 3, December 14) actually happened last week (in February). Larry's niece got married. So once again I was shown something that later proved to be true. They got married last week. I did also find a baby registry online, so they are expecting their first child.

 

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I was waiting for the download to finish. I decided to talk to Jean (my wife) who has passed on. I told her what I was doing. I asked her how she was doing. WOW! She responded, "I'm at Highpoint, (This was a property we dreamed of buying and building our last home, it never happened). "Honey the home is just like you drew it up. It's so beautiful." I asked her, "Is this for real or what?" "Yes dear, it's me," and at that instant a bee flew by and hung around me for a while. Well the bee totem I looked up the other day the, subtitle was "The honey of your life." This really if you will, blew me away!!! I then told her I hope to hear from her while I do the meditation tapes. No response.

I proceeded to start stage three and the download was now complete.

So, the child experience. I was standing at the end of a vineyard looking down two rows, when I saw someone little running to me. I could tell it was a little girl. She had a white dress on. Then, "Hi daddy!" with great enthusiasm. Oh my God. I instantly began to cry. I thought I might lose the connection. You see, my wife and I decided to have an abortion many many years ago, something we always had a deep regret of. I always felt it was a little girl! I apologized for what I did to her, as I was crying in our real time, and she responded "It's OK daddy. I love you. I'm OK." I couldn't believe what I was seeing and hearing.

Then to my left, my wife approached. I asked her if that's our little gir. "Yes dear." "What's her name," I asked. My wife said that she was waiting for me to come home so we can decide together. I froze, didn't know what to say. Finally our daughter turned and ran the other direction. I looked at my wife and told her how beautiful she looked and she responded as always, "Thank you Honey." She appeared about early thirties. Then our daughter came running back to us and I told them both that I should get going. I couldn't stop crying, figured I better leave. Then I looked at Jean and asked if this was Highpoint, and she said,"Yes dear. Isn't it beautiful?" I then told them that I better go. My daughter said, "OK Daddy, bye." I didn't even do the count down. I couldn't stop crying. It was a cry of joy and amazement.

I stepped outside and couldn't believe what just happened. The relief I had. You see when Jean left we had some unfinished business that's been bothering me, and I have to say that that now took a significant amount of "pain" away from me. I hope that that will continue. If my daughter can forgive me, (unconditional love ) maybe I can learn from her to do the same to her Mom!

Thank you ,thank you, thank you.

Funny thing...when you said to focus on a child, it didn't even enter my mind about our daughter. It wasn't until she said "Hi daddy" that it hit me, and hit hard!

For what its worth, I have not thought about Highpoint since Jean was in the hospital. That was 15 months ago. In fact there are no material things that I care about anymore, even the home we lost prior to her passing on.

Furthermore, when Jean passed, all our children (4 of them) were at her bedside to say goodbye. I was the first to say it and hugged her.(She had already passed at this point.) I then apologized to her for what I was about to say. I told her when she gets home to apologize to our daughter for the decision we made. Our children never new what we did, and I felt it necessary to get it out of me. Apparently, I believe Jean thought it was OK to do. She knew I didn't like secrets. It was "secrets" that caused the unfinished business to be such a major issue in my life. I think that our daughter just showed Mom and Dad a great lesson!

 

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